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      Roleplay Your Way (version for pairings with any gender) in Melbourne

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      May 4, 2019

      Saturday   1:00 PM - 5:30 PM

      First Floor, 149 Glenlyon Rd
      Melbourne, Victoria 3056

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      Roleplay Your Way (version for pairings with any gender)

      A roleplay workshop focussed around your fantasies, taboos and self-expression.

      Roleplay offers a way to explore erotic fantasies that can be playful, liberating, revealing, and sometimes intense. They're a powerful way to get away from established patterns and discover new aspects of yourself and your sexuality. And they're a very compelling way of exploring taboos - which, let's face it, we all have.

      This workshop begins with some general information and case studies about role-play, highlighting how things like consent, safe-words, safety, pre-negotiation, and public consent fit into role-play. Then, we head off in the direction of inner-work around your erotic fantasies, because that's where the juice is! We meander through the things that interest you, compel you, and attract your attention, and we milk them for ideas on how they might work as a role-play - we tap into your core erotic themes, and your fantasies.

      Finally (and optionally - participation is not mandatory), we work out how to break those themes down into small, bite-size pieces, and we forge them into a simple role-play, which you work with others in a small-group setting to enact. The emphasis is on going slowly, rather than diving in the deep end; however, tapping into our fantasies and playing them out can often be very juicy and deep work!

      Your practice piece includes negotiation and consent-setting processes, and debriefing.

      See full details of this event at

      If you're interested in this workshop you may want to check out Kink 101, Kink 102 (the follow-on), A Curious Approach to Spanking, and the Curiosity workshop and play-space. See all Melbourne workshops at

      INTENSITY: You can keep your roleplay capped at whatever level is right for you at the time. But some may take it to some juicy territory. So, two or three out of four chillies.
      WHO FOR: Anyone with an interest in roleplay, particularly as it fits within self-development or self-expression.
      WHO NOT FOR: Not for people taking their first steps into exploring sexuality. And see fine-print for general workshop exclusions.
      WHAT EXERCISES / ACTIVITIES?: Inner work (reflecting on your sexual interests), and three rounds of practicing roleplay (including one built around your interests).
      WILL THERE BE PARTNER WORK?: Yes. (But it's more like groups of three, rather than pairs).
      HOW WILL PARTNERING BE DONE?: Using a random-number system.
      CAN YOU WORK WITH AN EXISTING PARTNER / FRIEND?: No. Pairing will be random.
      NUDITY: It is possible some participants will use nudity in their practical exercise, but there is no expectation that you or anyone will get naked, nor is there a focus on nudity.
      SEXUAL CONTENT: The workshop is mostly geared around role-play as a form of sexual expression. Your practical exercise does not need to include sexuality or arousal, however.
      COMMITMENT: If you decide that, after the theory and inner-work, the practical exercise is not for you, you are welcome to leave. The workshop will still have given you insight into how role-play is done.
      RATIO EXPERIENTIAL / THEORETICAL: The first ~third of the workshop is theory and discussion. The second ~third is guided inner-work, helping you to explore your fantasies and erotic themes. The final ~third is a structured roleplay practice.
      BRING: A water bottle, whatever snacks you might need.
      WEAR: Whatever makes you comfortable - it is a 'non-scene' event, meaning you don't have to dress up. If you already have a hunch what your roleplay themes might be, you are welcome to bring clothing or accessories in support of that.

      Tickets are released in ‘rounds’, where ‘round one’ tickets are cheaper, to encourage you to book in early. There is no other difference between the ‘rounds’ of tickets.
      For this workshop, tickets range in price from $55 to $90.
      It is never possible to buy tickets on the door, nor by paying with cash. See our FAQ for more information on this:

      Unless otherwise stated, workshops start at the advertised time, and doors will be locked ten minutes later. This is because late arrivals interrupt the dynamic of the group, and will miss crucial safety information.

      You must BOOK TICKETS:

      Curious Creatures believe in sexual empowerment, self-development, community, consent, and communication. We pursue these aims by running workshops, producing a podcast ('Curious Conversations About Sex'), hosting events, speaking publicly, and writing about topics close to our hearts.
      Find out more about us, and check out our other workshops:

      You’re going to love our podcast:

      Roger Butler is the driving force behind Curious Creatures, along with some very special co-facilitators. Roger Butler was brought up white, middle-class, mostly heterosexual, and male. In addition to that lineage, they now identifies as kinky, tantric, polyamorous, queer, and very, very curious. Their training is in Process Oriented Psychology and the facilitation of groups, coupled with an extensive education in sexuality.

      Rog has been creating and facilitating Curious Creatures sexuality workshops for six years. Prior to this they facilitated well over a thousand workshops across various industries. They're easily one of Australia's most prolific sexuality workshop facilitators.

      By making this booking, I confirm that:
      - I will not reveal the names or any personal details of any person in the workshop (except the facilitators).
      - I have no reason to believe I am likely to fall into an altered states of consciousness (such as extremely strong moods, psychotic or schizophrenic states, numbness, trauma response) where I am unable to communicate and look after myself.
      - I am able to take responsibility for saying ‘no’ to any activity, experience or exchange that is not right for me. I will put my knowledge of my body and my psychology ahead of anything I am asked to do.
      - I have free will, and if I need to leave the workshop at any time, I can. If I do, I will let the facilitator know I am leaving if it's possible to do so, or get in touch with the facilitator/s afterwards to let them know why I left.
      - I am an adult and I understand that many of Curious Creatures' workshops are about sex and sexual practices. I understand that while the organisers are strongly committed to safety, there is no such thing as a 'safe space', and that I am responsible for my own safety.
      - I don't believe I am currently suffering from trauma or abuse.
      - I can understand complex instructions given in English.
      - I have read and agree to the refund policy, at

      PLEASE NOTE: We advertise our events many places and always have many more people booked in then you see here.

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