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      The Art of Vulva Pleasuring in Brunswick

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      October 18, 2019

      Friday   6:45 PM - 10:00 PM

      Brunswick, Victoria

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      The Art of Vulva Pleasuring

      The vulva is magical and a gateway to pleasure!

      In this workshop, Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee will help you to understand the vulva and the vagina better, regardless of your gender or sexual orientation. It will help you to feel more comfortable with this part of the body and more in tune with your own needs or that of your partner.

      *If you are an owner of a vulva… Many people want to attend my ‘The Art of Penis Pleasuring’ workshop to give, and please their partners. But seldom do the same people who give so much so generously all the time ever attend the Vulva Pleasuring workshop for themselves. Sometimes they know LESS about their own bodies than their partners. If you are a vulva owner, change this. Learn about your body. Own your body. Your sexuality is yours to share – to decide how you need to know you… Pleasure is yours.

      *If you seeking to please a vulva owner… Yes, this workshop is also for you! You need to increase your sexual knowledge, and sexual skills so as to give more pleasure. With knowledge and skills comes confidence.

      You will learn:
      *Female sexual anatomy – including the location of the elusive G spot
      *More than 20 erotic massage techniques for the labia, clitoris, vagina, and the G spot
      *5 types of lubricants to incorporate into your sex play
      *The role and importance of breathing for orgasmic experiences
      *How to experiment with speed, pressure, and rhythm
      *How to achieve long-lasting ecstasy
      *What an energy orgasm is

      The session will be held using sex toys or models or people you are partnered with, all in a warm and friendly environment that encourages learning and discussion.

      What you can expect:
      *Increased sexual knowledge, confidence, and performance
      *Sex positive, educational, and fun approach to the workshop
      *A safe and protected environment where you will be respected
      *Having your sex questions answered in an informed and compassionate manner

      These are the SAME techniques taught to female clients (and their partners) who experience vaginismus, painful sex, and lack of orgasm. They are, therefore, therapeutic techniques often taught and used in tantra and somatic bodywork. Save yourself years of heartache, confusion, and sexual anxieties due to the lack of understanding about sexual functioning by signing up for this workshop. All emotions, questions, and laughter are welcomed! You get all this knowledge once and for all in THIS workshop!

      See full details of this event at

      If you're interested in this workshop you may want to check out Dr Martha Lee's other upcoming workshops: Or Curious Creatures' associated workshops, Fun Little Sex Games, The Forest: Touch & Embodiment Ritual, and the Curiosity workshop and playspace. See our 15+ Melbourne workshops at

      1. Who are these workshops for? – For individuals or couples who wish to learn more about sexual anatomy, and genital massage – regardless of gender identity, sexual orientation, marital status, race, religion, or nationality.
      2. I don’t have a partner to come with. – This workshop is being offered to individuals or couples at this time so it is a non-issue. If you attend with your partner, you’d get to use the same terms/ vocabulary after the workshop – makes life easier! You also have the option to attend with a friend! It’s fun to learn together!
      3. But… I’m shy! – Don’t worry. You will never be forced to do or say anything during the workshop. Many participants in the past have chosen to just sit and learn without saying a word. We respect individual choice.
      4. How can I persuade my partner to attend these workshops? – Do explain that I’ve been running such workshops for close to 10 years, and every single person who has attended my workshops has said they overcame their resistance and are glad they attended it. I suggest you encourage your partner by saying that there will be other shy people there too, and everybody attending are there to learn to improve their lives!
      5. I don’t see why I need to learn about massaging my own genitals (I can’t possibly do it, right?) – Actually you can (massage your own genitals) – not all the strokes though. Each of us need to learn about our sexual anatomy to claim your sexuality fully. It is when we know who we are and what we like, will we then be able to communicate better and more deeply with your partner(s).
      6. Will there be nudity? – This is a clothing optional workshop. You’re free to get completely undressed, partially undressed, or keep all your clothes on.
      7. Will there be touch? – Yes. Couples will work exclusively together. Singles will be randomly paired with each other. There’s also the option to work exclusively with yourself or toys that we provide (e.g. carrot) in which case you won’t need to touch anyone else.
      8. Will you be doing any demo on a person. – Yes, we have recruited helpers for this purposes.
      9. Do you need any live models? – No, we will source these ourselves.
      10. Ratio of discussion to experiential? – About 50/50 percent.
      11. Can you give a discount? – No. We have costs including for the venue + refreshments.
      12. What should I bring? – A wrap or sweater in case it gets cool. A water bottle is advisable. Tea, coffee and light snacks will be provided.
      13. What should I wear? – Please come wearing loose-fitting comfortable clothes so you have the option of sitting on the floor.
      14. What is your refund policy? –

      Tickets are released in ‘rounds’, where ‘round one’ and ‘round two’ tickets are discounted to encourage you to book in early. There is no other difference between the ‘rounds’ of tickets. Tickets range in price from $95 to $125, per person.

      It is never possible to buy tickets on the door, nor by paying with cash. See our FAQ for more information on this:

      Workshops start at the advertised time, and doors will be locked ten minutes later. This is because late arrivals interrupt the dynamic of the group, and will miss crucial safety information.

      You must BOOK TICKETS:

      Curious Creatures believe in sexual empowerment, self-development, community, consent, and communication. We pursue these aims by running workshops, producing a podcast ('Curious Conversations About Sex'), hosting events, speaking publicly, and writing about topics close to our hearts.

      Find out more about us, and check out our other workshops:

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      The Art of Vulva Pleasuring workshop is presented by Dr Martha Tara Lee (from Eros Coaching in Singapore) who strives to be one of the best sexologists in the world. Curious Creatures is proud to partner with her sex-positive events.

      Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Martha decided to take it upon herself to be an advocate for positive sexuality in 2007. She earned a doctorate in human sexuality, and launched Eros Coaching in 2009. Today, she also has a masters in counseling and remains dedicated to working with individuals and couples to lead self-actualised and pleasure-filled lives.

      She has worked with a lot of couples who have an unconsummated marriage, men and women with sexual inhibitions and sexual desire discrepancies, men with erection and ejaculation concerns, GLBTQ people, and kinky folks. A born and bred Singaporean Chinese, Martha welcomes individuals as well as couples of all sexual orientations.

      Since 2011, Dr Lee has been (and still is) the only certified sexuality educator by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in Southeast Asia. She strives to be the one of the best sexologists in the world. She takes pride in making sure all her events are fun, educational, and sex-positive! Find out more including media appearances, presentations, publications, and testimonials:

      By making this booking, I confirm that:
      - I will not reveal the names or any personal details of any person in the workshop (except the facilitators).
      - I have no reason to believe I am likely to fall into an altered state of consciousness (such as extremely strong moods, psychotic or schizophrenic states, numbness, trauma response) where I am unable to communicate and look after myself.
      - I am able to take responsibility for saying ‘no’ to any activity, experience or exchange that is not right for me. I will put my knowledge of my body and my psychology ahead of anything I am asked to do.
      - I have free will, and if I need to leave the workshop at any time, I can. If I do, I will let the facilitator know I am leaving if it's possible to do so, or get in touch with the facilitator/s afterwards to let them know why I left.
      - I am an adult and I understand that many of Curious Creatures' workshops are about sex and sexual practices. I understand that while the organisers are strongly committed to safety, there is no such thing as a 'safe space', and that I am responsible for my own safety.
      - I don't believe I am currently suffering from trauma or abuse.
      - I can understand complex instructions given in English.
      - I have read and agree to the refund policy, at

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